The name of the blog comes from the idea that I, like everyone else in the world, am “doing it wrong” – not following all the rules perfectly, or even not knowing what they are. I am coming to understand that that does not make me, or anyone else, undeserving of love and respect as human beings.
Posts here are about life, love, feminism, fat acceptance, and anything else I find interesting. Disagreement is welcome, but I expect it to be respectful. Comments that are blatently abusive will be deleted. In other words, if the only message you have for me is “UR DOING IT WRONG” – well, that’s exactly the point.